I went to a medium recommended to me by a few friends. While it was great, it wasn’t mind blowing. It was what I needed though.

I have a few neat things i would like to share about what this medium said. But this has been on my mind lately.

The only thing i told the medium before going was the passing was recent (i didn’t want to traumatize myself or get any spirits stuck in between planes just so i could talk to them).

During our session the medium said something like “have you scattered the Ashes yet? He’s saying “you have my toe”, did you give ashes to family or what does that mean?

Well my Dad told me for years the exact place he would like to be returned to the earth, i also told him for many years that i wanted to make some of him into a diamond.

You know, the crazy ashes into diamond technology that’s out there. It’s so expensive though, takes a year, and i think if i ever lost his ash diamond i would be very upset.

I’m still debating the idea, but since I have no patience to decide on or have anything ….

One night a few weeks ago I was finishing a long procrastinated project with resin.

In the moment, i decided, why not, I’m doing it. I took out my dads temporary tool box home and opened the bag of his Ashes and took the smallest pinch out and made a tiny heart pendant out of resin and his Ashes.

Yeah it may be weird to some, it may not be the most exquisite memorial pendant, but it’s brought me comfort and I’m happy i have it.

when the medium asked about the Ashes and said the toe comment I laughed.

I like to think because of that comment, I have my dads toe with me. In a pendant I made that’s always on my neck.

When I miss my dad, talk to him, or do something that reminds me of him, I rub the pendant or hold it and hope he feels my love.

“You have my toe”